I feel like everyone can see the weight of my heart pulling on my face
"Before you say yes, get him angry. See him scared, see him wanting, see him sick. Stress changes a person. Find out if he drinks and if he does, get him drunk - you’ll learn more about his sober thoughts. Discover his addictions. See if he puts you in front of them. You can’t change people, baby girl. If they are made one way, it doesn’t just wear off. If you hate how he acts when he’s out of it now, you’re going to hate it much worse eight years down the road. You might love him to bits but it doesn’t change that some people just don’t fit."
inkskinned, “My father’s recipe for the man I should marry” (via partygirlmeltdown)
This is very, very good advice. You learn more about who someone really is when they are under stress or in an emergency than in a dozen calm years.
Stick him with an infant or toddler for an afternoon.
(Source: thelovewhisperer, via thedharmaking)
"There are poems
inside of you
that paper can’t
- Y.Z (via arabarabarab)
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"Every time you show your feelings, you apologize. Have you ever had an emotion in your life that you weren’t ashamed of?"
- R.J Anderson, Ultraviolet (via arabarabarab)
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Palestinian lady collects gas bombs fired by Israeli army. She grows flowers in these bombs.
"When god became lonely
he created man,
Or was it
When man became lonely
he created god."
- Melanie Exler strengthenizer (via mirroir)
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